Monday, November 7, 2011

Very, Very Late TMI - LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX

I know this is totally a full week late or more. But hey, I love the subject matter, can you blame me if I want to play the catch-up game? So let's do this!

1. What sexual act arouses you the most? For that matter, what nonsexual act arouses you the most?
I am not sure if I have the same Pleasure Principle as the other women, but I am completely aroused when my pussy is adored and eaten. I say adored as in all the heavenly things that can be possibly done to stimulate my clit and my g-spot brings out the best in me. The most non-sexual act would be whispering in my ear and kissing the back of my neck, right behind the earlobe. 
Oh is that sexual? A good conversation where I laugh out loud at his jokes or a simple, but intelligent conversation is a huge turn on. Particularly when we start to have dissenting opinions about any issue; geo-political, philosophy,music, arts, sports, current events, anything or any subject I am interested in or that I find stimulating, and we go at it.  Chances are, we end in bed.
2. What is your signature or “go to” move that is sure to get a lover in the mood for sex?
When I am conversing with him, I softly rub his inner thighs but I look at him straight in the eyes. In some other cases, when I am feeling totally frisky, I love to "flash" him when I cross my legs. hahaha
3. Do you queef?
Do birds fly? Not often, but there are certain times when it does happen.
4. What’s the weirdest thing that’s happened to YOU as a result of your sex writings (e.g., blog, erotica, sex toy reviews)? (borrowed from Insatiabear)
Not weird, I believe it must be a rather usual consequence. Some people misconstrue that I am an "easy lay." Unfortunately, I just write certain sexy or sensual things. The people who really know me just know that I love to write and it has been a passion since I was a child. I am however a very sensual person and very passionate.  It's in my nature. I am also a romantic, it's not just all about sex. I prefer the whole nine yards.
5. Have you ever had sex while someone watched?
Yes. I think once while I was having sex on the beach. (not the drink)
…someone else was in the room?
Yes, but this was in a trip with friends, who were all couples and we had to do with a single cottage.
…someone else in the bed, next to you and the person you’re having sex with?
Would across the bed count?  Hotel. On a twin deluxe room.
What were the circumstances?
I was giddy with wine and horny as a rabbit, we went for it under the sheets. Our roomie must have had a blast listening to the heavy breathing and moans we made.
6. When it comes to sex, and discussing it with your teen have you or would you:
a. Let school sex education handle it
b. Hand the teen a book or point them to a website
c. Talk frankly and openly
d. Avoid it all together–society, friends, and the internet will give all the info needed
I would have to answer this academically.  When I have my own children I will take Step C. My parents were fairly average in terms of handling this subject and I have learned that it is always better to be direct and honest. No myths, just facts.
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Bonus:   Remember the song, “I’m too sexy?” CLICK to refresh your memory
What are you too sexy for?
I am way too sexy for men who do not treat women as they should be treated; respected, loved and adored. I hate women abusers.  I will not give a man who still believes that women are only suitable for sex and having babies, a nano-second of my life. So if you are a jerk, a loser or an a-hole who still believes this, I would probably whack you first before you can hurt me. Plus, never underestimate women and our capacity for getting even. Just keeping it real.
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