See, There's This Guy ...

Well I have been quite "occupied" and with that I actually mean, there's this guy I am now seeing.  Yes and I am enjoying every glorious minute of it.
I do have an unfinished Love and Sex Short Story Fiction in the drawing board, however my time is mostly spent being pampered and adored by this totally adorable man.  I am "smitten" so to speak.  I guess because he comes closest to how my father worships the ground I walk on and I can see he is completely taken even by my 'princess' tantrums.
I did tell him about this Blog and what I do during my spare moments including the things I write about.  He responded with the most disarming smile and prodded me to keep on doing what I think I enjoy doing.  (Well, wtf?  Where was this man hiding all along?)  I told him I will write a little bit about him for the few loyal readers that I have.  
And it's not Jake, my snake man.  This kind of man is for "keeps." My real life friends are of course drooling and jumping up and down with joy.  I guess they have never seen my face glow and my eyes twinkle and my cheeks flushed, all at the same time; and most especially if he is beside me. I do sound like a teenager out on a first date with her first love.  I hope you understand that I have come from a long engagement to a guy I have loved practically most of my adult years, only to be dumped a few months after we have formalized our marriage plans to our respective families.  
It wasn't easy picking up the pieces of whatever was left of my ego so I decided that unless a man deserves my full undivided attention, I will consider them only as part of my accessories, on a "need to have" basis.  
Of course there are other guys I dated(still dating?) and enjoyed lots of intimate moments with.  None of them comes close to how this man makes my heart skip a beat and make me catch my breath.  He comes from a mixed European descent; towering at about 6'6" tall, lean and packed where it matters to me.  When I say packed, as in really, really packed. He is about 5 years my senior, never believed in settling down early.  He thinks while you are in your prime,it is the time to earn enough, have a family and kids later to enjoy while he lives on investment income and trust funds interests.  So far, he is close to where he wants to be financially and I would like to believe, I am the best "test" to his vow of being a bachelor-at-large.  I do sound giddy because I am.  I sleep with a grin in my face and wake up with a smile.  Totally satisfied and still completely horny. Ahh, the feeling of being in love. Es maravilloso!
I will keep this Blog up as I happen to love it.  However be patient as I come and go. 
I never give 100% to anyone, but when I love the man, I give him much more than that.  It could be a character flaw but that is the only way I know how to love. Ooh la la ...

TMI TUESDAY - WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

1. You encounter a good looking lost and frantic tourist looking for the airport. You:
A) Shrug your shoulders, feigning ignorance.
B) Find the shortest route on your smartphone and get him/her a cab.
C) Direct him/her to the nearest bus stop.
D) Get your car, pick up his/her luggage and speed to the airport.

This really depends if I have the time to stop and help.  If the tourist looks honestly lost in my side of the world, of course I will stop and help.  So that would be C). But if we are looking at a situation say in JFK Airport or LAX?  I will feign ignorance like another lost tourist!

2. You’re taking a vacation alone. Your destination:
A) Beach resort — I just want to relax and de-stress.
B) A group tour — I don’t want to worry about the details.
C) Wherever the dart lands on the map.
D) Every country with a hostel — my backpack is my home.

A vacation alone.   Obvious answer.  A of course.

3. Blackout! You can’t watch TV, so you light some candles and:
A) Dig up some batteries and listen to the radio.
B) Invite the neighbors, light a fire and sing camping songs all night.
C) Find a friend and play games that don’t require electricity. . . Like chess.
D) Drive to the next town — oh sweet Wi-Fi, I’ve found you!

I will go with C.),there are other games you can play in candlelight and this may not be as boring and as cerebral as Chess.

4. The man/woman of your dreams has finally proposed. The relationship is perfect, they are everything you’ve ever dreamed of and ever wanted. They are also a multi-millionaire and want you to sign a prenuptial agreement. Which would you do?
A) Sign it
B) Just not get married

Not under PNA question! If I truly love him, of course I will.  I am not marrying him for his wealth or my economic/financial stability. I would also ask him to sign a Pre-Restraining Order, in case something goes wrong and I want him out of my life.  Fair deal.

5. If you were going to marry an inanimate object, what would you marry?
Note: A woman has married the Eiffel Tower and another has married the golden gate bridge. Read about it HERE

Wow, a little difficult.  Okay I guess I do have to choose. I will marry the Rue du Faubourg Saint-Honoré, yes, the fashion street in Paris.

Bonus: You’ve just inherited a manufacturing plant that specializes in plastics. What are you going to make?

A churning machine that will make the resins recyclable and earth friendly. I am sorry for a boring answer, but I took plastic seriously.  On the other hand, if I take this question a little silly, I will make sex toys for women.  Develop plastic "tools and toys" that closely resembles the human skin like Mattel.

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Happy TMI Tuesday!

TMI TUESDAY - DATING

1. You're on a speed date. You've got 7 minutes with the potential partner. You already know the person's name. What are the first three questions you would ask?


Question Number 1: Why are you here?
Question Number 2: What activities do you enjoy on your free/leisure time?
Question Number 3: What kind of girl turns you off?


2. Have you ever participated in speed dating? Did you get a regular date/second date out of it?

No, never.  I don't frown upon it, except I am more the romantic type.  Let's take this slow and sweet.


3. Do you participate in online dating? How many dates have you had as a result of online dating sites/matches?
I have never participated in Online Dating either.  Well now that I have started on a Blog, I think it is not a remote possibility.


4. You are attracted to:

a. Who people are?
Definitely for who they are; what he believes in; what is important to him; what he is not willing to negotiate or what he stands for.  I go for the strength of character.  What lies between the ears next to what lies between his legs. haha


b. What people have?
This is not really a priority.  But if you happen to own a castle or an island, this would definitely be 1000 more brownie points!


c. What they can do?
A little vague about what this means.  However, if they are skilful with their hands, like arts and crafts, this could be absolutely promising.  Or if they are a cunning linguist.


5. What "little red flag" will cause you to end a date or immediately decide this person isn't for you?
Ugh!  Hygiene problems - dirty fingers, dirty shoes, dirty or smelly anything.  I would gracefully dump my date if he is too caught up with himself and bores me with stories about him.  Non-listening behavior is such a turn off.


6. What do you feel you need to sacrifice or have sacrificed to be a part of a relationship?
I think in every relationship, if you really love the person, and he is important to you, it is NOT a sacrifice.  It's a choice. I can decide to give up certain things, not because he asked me to, but because I want to. The same way I am willing to accept what he can't give up, not even for me.


7. If you cooked for your date, what would you cook?
Oh, definitely Italian or Spanish. A full course that starts with an antipasto, red wine, a pasta dish and some sinfully delightful dessert we can be very creative in terms of how we will eat it.  (wink!)


8. At the end of a first date, how would you kiss your date?
a. Press your lips against theirs
b. Gentle kiss on the cheek
c. Lots o' tongue, like you're on a tonsil exploration
d. I don't kiss on the first date


I don't really kiss on a first date.  However, if we spent a lot of time, and I have found your company such a delight, I would probably be giving you a light kiss on the lips - something to remember me by.


Bonus: You just put up a profile on a dating site. You must describe yourself in 10 words or less. What are your 10 words?


Beautiful, sexy, smart. In mint condition. See to appreciate. lol!